I recently lightened my whole long-ass mane of hair in order to dye it an ombre rose gold/cotton candy floss pink. It looks great. But in order to keep the upper, blondier part of my hair from getting too bleached-brassy, I need to use a toning shampoo/conditioner. Read more

This is the best comment I’ve read all day. That being said, the resentment against women stems from being taught that women don’t desire fat men...it’s all fucked, really.

But for reals I appreciate your well-reasoned thoughts. Read more

There’s no one right magical answer, unfortunately. It’s different for everyone. But my advice is to treat yourself with kindness, and take the time to recognize those moments that make you proud of yourself, and do what you can to create more of them. Read more

They’re everywhere, yo. Read more

I’m a size queen myself, but sometimes those baby dicks will surprise you in all the best ways tho ;) Read more

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I did use Lash Out! I would say the Butterfly is comparable, if not QUITE as good. Read more

I have the “light” shade and I’ve never experienced any noticeable issues with pigment transfer. Read more

It totally does! The color will pop much more when applied to a primer. Read more

Friend, I do not know. It makes me feel like a responsible adult and if my skin still turns out to be a nightmare in twenty years, so be it. AT LEAST I TRIED. But do whatever works for you, and maybe ask a dermatologist if you’re serious about getting a real answer. Read more

LOVE Dermalogica. I use their sebum clearing face masque. And yes, HIGHLY recommend the Lovely Jubblies.

I actually have CeraVe AM and PM but I kind of forgot about them until just now! Thanks for reminding me :) Read more

I like the Ren stuff - hesitant to recommend it because it IS expensive and I’m sure you could find something comparable for a little cheaper (Boscia?). But it has made a difference in my skin quality, especially around the eyes. Read more

Not silly at all, it’s seriously the best thing. Read more

There are two shades of the blush and I actually went back to get the darker one because I had the same problem. Read more

Color IS joyful and you are great. Rave on rave on, sisterfriend. Read more

To each their own! I like bright colors and draggy make-up, but I totally get that it’s not everyone’s jam. Read more

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Yep, this is the correct answer on both counts. Read more

See reply above! Read more

I shave both my armpits and my ladybusiness with the safety razor. The bikini area requires a more delicate touch and plenty of soaking/soap, but if you think about it like a man’s beard with the same sort of sensitive skin, it’ll start to come together. Might take some experimentation/troubleshooting to find out what… Read more