of course - more keying into the idea of how we still seem to depict it culturally or in stated preferences. Read more

This post at Huffpo is allegedly a response from Lloyd’s girlfriend who turned him off of oral. She claims he did try to go down on her a lot, but was just really bad at it. http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/rhianna-kemi/g… Read more

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Right - but this sounds like you’re one of those exceptions noted in the piece - where you were friends before, and then mutually agreed to be friends after. Most people aren’t so lucky. Read more

Well, you really can’t leave infants alone, toddlers are on a constant death march —once you have a more autonomous kid who can play alone it’s much much easier to go to the bathroom alone, but still, one bathroom and you’re going to have to pee during bathtime. To say nothing of how much time you spend with THEM in… Read more

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I would say without spoiling that once it turns, it becomes torture-porn-y in a way that isn’t necessarily high gore but is unblinking and hard to watch given that it’s happening between mother and sons. Read more

I still need to do more research on “hardcore pussy eating” too. Read more

Oh yeah, I feel you, which is in part what made me so dismissive as a teenager of the sage old lady advice coming at me — some of it felt very retrograde/out of touch, though other aspects of it were right on. I should've probably clarified to get yourself a COOL older lady friend. Read more

That's not what I meant in the slightest. I wasn't talking about women not helping other women, but more about the way a lot of young people feel antagonistic about authority figures, which I think is true for men and women both. In my case, as I wrote with the older women in my family, it wasn't that I thought any of… Read more

Thanks, I think anyone can be well intentioned and still get it wrong. Happy to help clarify this. Read more

I totally understand this. I feel like I don't fit in the class I'm in now, but I no longer fit in the class I used to be in either. It's a weird impostor status that I have found hard to shake. Read more

I have learned from this that eyebrows are the weirdest thing that has ever happened to faces Read more

Thank you! Totally. Read more

YES thank you. Read more

There's a kind of intellectual disconnect/absurdity in this approach to "teaching a lesson" that sticks hard in my craw. As other commenters have pointed out, the idea of shifting the values of Christmas as a family is a great idea. But telling kids they are too entitled and taking presents away — when the parents… Read more

thank you, yes, this is precisely my point. Read more

oh my god thank you! you are the only person who read the article. Read more

I really wish I had known the answer to this. Read more

Lol, I work at home. This is definitely about Ghosts of Dicks Past. Read more