I am sorry that you have been struggling and very much hope that it will get easier. I think that it will. xo Read more

I'm not interested in having a conversation with you about this, Sir Stig, but let me just say that I am in no way advocating judgment of anybody. I AM advocating empathy for those going through divorce—whatever the circumstances—as well as those thrown by their friends' romantic tumult. Happy Thanksgiving. Read more

It seems as if you've already gotten some really thoughtful, helpful advice. The kindness and empathy everywhere present in these comments is just so inspiring. Read more

I just want you to know that I am thinking about this and will respond soon. I want to be as helpful as I can. xo Read more

The divorce itself isn't the focus here, but I've written about it elsewhere. Read more

I was not a victim. I was someone who knew she needed to leave. Read more

Hi there! Yep, you're missing the point. Read more

"Clutter" is a great way to put it. So many lists, and SO DAMN OVERWHELMING when you confront them all at once. Read more

I know those feelings - they really do linger. I'm so glad if this resonated, and I hope that every day things are getting easier. You did the right thing. xo Read more