LOLZ, me and my girl Aeisha used to dance around her house to this song and Get. It. Oh, Adina was so much fun, but I remember people just dismissing her as a 'ho,' which now as an adult, I realize is such bullshit. Age, experience and knowledge though ... Also, I want to read Roxane's book. Someone give it to me STAT. Read more

Agreed, though I don't even think Kim's "public mound" (lolz) was on my mother's radar, I learned most of what is right and such from her, so squatting with my vag' out was always off the table. I will still pop it and drop it with style and grace but I don't think that's ever really been "in poor taste" for me. It's…

Right, when is the female form being problematic because it's viewed as too sexual become solely the problem of the person looking and not the person bearing that female form. At what point are we just prudes putting our puritanical upbringing on someone like Nicki and at what point is she begging for attention and… Read more

I totally see your point and mull over this all the time, I'm all for a woman controlling her own sexuality. Nicki paid for her ass and like, say a weave, she should be able to show it off whenever she wants to. It is her body. But is a woman controlling her sexuality ever out of the realm of the male gaze? Is her… Read more

Oh, come over to the side that loves Strahan and watches him every morning. I adore watching him on Live With Kelly and Michael because he's not being a stereotype or working hard to make people feel comfortable, he's just doing him. I love it. Read more

I think I went to the Catskills recently — who can ever tell with upstate NY — but I liked it. The area was small and quaint. Overpriced, totally, but it didn't feel snobby. But maybe because I live in NYC and can ignore that vibe when and if it shows up? Read more

Now that you say that, maybe I should use Q-tips on my laptop to clean it. But the pointy ones are the truth. I found some at my mom's house last year and my head promptly exploded.

I apologize to everyone for saying "apparently" much too much. Noah has shown me the error of my ways, and how they can be passed on to unsuspecting children. Read more

And to have children also. You need a legal document bestowed upon you by The Smart People who deemed you fit to parent and marry. Read more

Ain't you tired! — Viola Davis in The Help. Read more

Such a struggle you're having.

Thanks ERIN! And yes, Tara is the best. Panties are the new Lion King or Nicki Minaj meme, whatever floats your boat. Read more

Not gonna lie, I am excited for Shonda Thursdays. My emotions will be in tatters afterward I am sure, but I will steel myself. Also, I'll need to steel myself for the scenes when Viola rubs up on that kid from Harry Potter. Because Alfie was definitely a teenager the last time we saw him in HP and The Deathly Hallows… Read more

Newborns?! I need to see proof of this please because that sounds like child abuse. Read more

Because Kara writes for Jezebel and some readers think looking at the photo of her face and matching it with her name is a dumb thing to do because why start with truth? That'd be a ridiculous thing to do ... Read more

Whoa, this image just made me feel like I was 15 again ... Read more

That is harsh, you're right. Ugh, this clinic is really handsy with the ethnicity issue and it reminds me of the L Word story arc when Tina and Bette were trying to get pregnant and Bette wanted a brown baby to reflect her own brown-ness but Tina had to "get OK with it." I thought it was such bullshit that it must… Read more

True, but it's still Texas. And Texas is ... Texas. Read more

When did treggings become a thing? Do you wear them to work without shirts or jackets long enough to cover your butt? Help me understand please. Read more